4 In your struggle against sin you have not yet resisted to the point of shedding your blood. 5 And have you forgotten the exhortation that addresses you as sons?
“My son, do not regard lightly the discipline of the Lord, nor be weary when reproved by him. 6 For the Lord disciplines the one he loves, and chastises every son whom he receives.”
Hebrews 12:4-6
It’s a difficult thing.
Discipline.
All resist it. Some more, few less.
Discipline can be punishment for wrong.
In the end no man, woman or child enjoys reproof. No delight in discipline.